the world is just so not black and white

this morning at church i joined in with one of the cells groups - the years 9&10 girls to be precise. we had been together with all the other groups when i presented a few ideas and then we broke up into smaller groups to answer/discuss some excellent questions (which i had made up).

it became quite apparent that these girls had their brains switched ON! we discussed, amongst various other things
- that while sometimes, even though not telling the whole truth is dishonest, it may be the best thing to do and at other times the completely wrong thing to do
- that sometimes, even though breaking someones trust is a bad thing to do, sometimes it is a necessary thing to do
-that you can't have a deep relationship without putting yourself out there first

relationships are tricky things

we are we to judge people??? it is not our place to decide who is right or who is wrong, or who deserves what, or who deserves our friendship, help, support...

it is our place to love ALL people with God's love and to be a light in this grey world